being single can make us ladies feel down sometimes. we ask ourselves questions like what's wrong with me? am I fat? do I talk too much? why do I always go for assholes?!
instead of always focussing on the negatives and things that make us depressed, we need to start seeing what is so great about being single.
we ladies freak out too much about awkward silences. 90% of women have anxiety issues and have too much going on inside their heads. I am the first to put my hand up for that...silence can be such a beautiful thing for a woman's mind. we can instantly calm ourselves with just a few deep breaths and a quiet space. It can give give us time to actually not think about anything and just be.
Two. Girl Time.
this is my favourite part about being single. I love my girls and I love those few weeks a year when all your girls friends are single at the same time. these are the best bonding times for girls when we eat chocolate and watch sex and the city marathons or when we drink ridiculous amounts of wine and go out dancing and don't come home untill dawn.
now I would never be with a man that would try to control me but there's something great and empowering about being single and having complete control on what you want to do and when you want to do it. you don't have to think about a boy and if they would like what you want to do. you can wear Bridget Jones underwear not shave your legs for weeks and not have to give a ****
Four. Being Selfish.
I am a flight attendant so my job means that I always have to be worrying about other people and i always have to put my self and my life last. so when I have a boyfriend I hardly ever get to think about myself as number 1 because I am so use to putting others first. When I am single and off work I can actually think about myself what I want and dont want. You dont have to worry about anything but what should be number 1 at all times. YOU.
Five. Everything Stay Clean.
boys can be messy and that's annoying. when you are single everything stays in place, you know exactly where everything is, and things stay clean. You don't have to worry about hiding your chocolate and chips behind the vegetables in the cupboard because they will always be there knowing there is so no wild bear in the area haha.
don't get me wrong though...I love boys and all women have needs. we just need to be patient in finding the right guy and not be so harsh on ourselves in the meantime.